Singles Date Again: Package your scalp in clean hair and current styles for the first step in a more attractive you when you are dating again. More about singles and dating again:
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Think back to your presents at your last birthday or from a gift-giving holiday. Which one did you reach for first? Probably the one that was packaged well. Never mind that it contained the worst gift of the lot and the plainly wrapped one was a cherished jewel. The most attractive package usually gets the first look. Packaging you encompasses your:
Lets take hair: First and foremost, hair should always be clean. My grandparents' generation (men and women) washed their hair once a week. Women had their hair done weekly, then heavily sprayed to carry them to the next weekly wash. Men washed their hair weekly, too, then wet it down or put greasy stuff on it each day. I wonder how they stood it for a week. In fact, I wonder how they stood each other! If you do that today, you not only look out-of-date, you do not look or smell clean by today's standards. So, keep that hair squeaky clean. Hair is one of the quickest parts of you to re-package. A new, stylish hair-do works wonders for men or women and really is a "quick fix." Up-to-date hair styles also make singles look younger. You date yourself when you stick with that style "you've always worn." But back to my grandparents. My gramps doesn't have that weekly hair-washing problem because he doesn't have any hair! What about you? No hair? If your lack of locks bothers you, consider hair replacement. It gets more advanced and less noticeable each year. Many women think bald men are downright sexy. Very few men have that opinion of bald women. If your female hair is thin and wispy, it is possible to get a hair style that enhances your thinning locks. Keep trying hair stylists until you find one who understands the problem and has solutions. My sibling made an astute observation at the holiday brunch table by offering, "We really promote hair in our society. We look at it, touch it, stroke it, and even kiss it as long as it is on someone's head. Just let it get separated, however, and we hate it." It's true. And just watch people flirt sometime. It often involves using their hair. Men and women alike preen, smooth, and even flick their hair when they are in the presence of an interesting person of the opposite sex. So package your scalp in clean hair and current styles for the first step in a more attractive you. |
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