Commitment Phobia and
Singles: The singles world is filled with people who
can not make a commitment. More
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The singles’ world is full of people who can not sustain a long-term
relationship.
And what is that often elusive long-term relationship?
A long-term relationship is one that lasts a minimum of four years. You often meet singles
who have a history of six-month to three-year relationships. For whatever reason, and many
singles have some convincing ones, they can’t make that fourth year.
They are masters of the six-month to three-year
relationship.
Even if you get this person to the altar, you have probably only gained a future date in a
divorce court.
There are many reasons a person cannot sustain a long-term
relationship.
A few are:
- 1. They are perfectionists. No relationship is ever perfect.
Sally says, “I know there are no perfect men out there, but somewhere there is a man
who is perfect for me.”
2. They are lust seekers. The new relationship brings chemical high. Three years is
usually as long as this high can be sustained.
3. They are hunters. The thrill of the hunt is the best part.
Paul laments the end of his last relationship then says, in an excited tone of voice,
“That’s it. I’m in my hunting form again!”
4. They are happy being single. They have built a life around being single. They have
friends, social activities, and a lifestyle that would no longer exist with marriage.
5. They can’t commit. They may or may not know this, but a long-term relationship is
out of the question for them.
Regardless, these commitment-phobic men and women enter relationships but their anxiety
eventually leads to the end of that relationship.
Where can you meet these men and women who have commitment phobia or
something like it?
Unfortunately you can meet them anywhere in the singles' world.
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You can meet them in very
small groups or in large groups.
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You can meet them on the internet and in the personals.
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You can meet them at church and at the grocery store.
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Although you are less likely to meet
them where fees exceed the average personal ad, you can meet them in dating services.
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And
if the love gods are truly against you, you might even meet one in a matchmaking service.
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