Choosing personal matchmakers for shy singles: Shy singles can use personal matchmakers to meet one-on-one. Choose a service where one matchmaker matches and interviews for best results.

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Shyness and Shy Singles  

Choosing Personal Matchmakers for Shy Singles

By Pat McChristie

Find a matchmaking service where one matchmaker does all the interviewing and all the matching. That is important to your success! Size sounds like an advantage but it can be a disadvantage if  it requires the service to have more than one matchmaker.

Personal Matchmaking Service

This is an excellent meeting way for those of us who are shy or not shy at all! In particular, a matchmaking service takes a lot of the work, time, and grief out of meeting the opposite sex.....

The personal matchmaker who has a "knack" for successful matching  is probably the most successful way for a shy person to meet.

Matchmaking is not a science, however, so expect to spend some time in a matchmaking service before you have results.

National or Local?

A national service must hire a matchmaker--or two or three. Turnover of employees may mean that you are not matched by the person who interviewed you.

How can someone match you who does not even know you? In my opinion, they can not.

Sometimes the national service is larger than the local service. This can be an advantage because there are more people to meet.

However, size can be a disadvantage, too, if  it requires the service to have more than one matchmaker.

Why?

We're back to the matchmaker's knowing both parties to the match.

 

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Shy singles can utilize personal  matchmakers to meet and help overcome shyness.

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The matchmaker who matches you and Chris, for example, may know you but not Chris, or vice versa. Often not the best deal for you or Chris.

Tip: Find a matchmaking service where one matchmaker does all the interviewing and all the matching. That is important to your success!

A local matchmaker usually does the interviewing and matching for all clients of the service.

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