Singles and marriage: Try improving your odds
for a better chance of marrying or entering a long-term relationship. |
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better way for singles to succeed in marrying or entering a long-term relationship--look
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Poor Odds,
Good Odds.
Increase your odds.
By Rob McLean
You want to get married or in a long-term
relationship. But it never seems to happen for you.
Have you tried improving your odds?
Maybe you don't seek situations where your odds are good. Worse yet, you
often find yourself in situations where your odds are poor.
Examples might include:
1. You have an unusual passion or lifestyle. It would be nice to have it
appreciated but at the very least it must be tolerated. You need to find those "birds
of a feather."
2. You meet best in one-to-one situations, yet you do not seek out one-to-one
environments for meeting.
3. You think those personal ads, singles' groups, and dating or matchmaking
services "aren't for you." Wrong. The personal ads, the singles groups, and the
matchmaking or dating services greatly improve your odds.
4. You are going to crowded places when you do not stand out in a crowd. You
are a quiet, reserved person in a situation where your star can not shine as brightly as
others in attendance. Look for places where you have less competition--where the odds are
more your favor. |
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5. You hang out at the same places
day in and day out. You know you have not met anyone here and the odds of doing so are
poor, yet you come back again and again. Time for a change of scenery!
6. Ditto hanging out with the same crowd over and over. True, it is safe;
it is comfortable. But you are not meeting enough new people to increase your odds of
marriage.
7. You hang out with your married friends! Good luck!!!
8. You tried one way of meeting singles, did not meet the person of your dreams
in this manner so you gave up. What do you think your odds are now?
Roll the dice with the odds in your favor if marriage or a
long-term relationship is your goal! |
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Forever Single Series:
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Your Lover Meeting enough singles of the
opposite sex to find the person you desire involves a multi-faceted, proactive campaign.
Your campaign makes you easy to find.
Proactive,
Proactive, Proactive: Be an activist for YOU Many
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when it comes to love and dating. The best route to marriage involves being proactive in
your own behalf!
Life on Hold For some reason, an ailing parent, a career, children... you put your life
on hold for some other time. After mom is gone... After I get that promotion... After the
kids are grown... can be a whole lifetime alone or continually replaced by another
reason to leave your life on hold.
They Don't Meet: It is obvious that singles must meet before they can enter marriage or a
long-term relationship. How do singles meet? Let Chris tell you!
Poor Odds Maybe
you don't seek situations where your odds are good. Worse yet, you often find
yourself in situations where your odds are poor.
Don't Set Goals Goals help
you achieve your dreams in life. They are as applicable to meeting and dating as they are
to other parts of your life.
No Time for Love We all have 24 hours in a day. How we spend that time depends, to a large degree,
upon how much importance we place on activities that consume that time.
Priority: Marriage or Long-Term
Relationship If your goal is marriage or
a long-term relationship, set priorities based on the value an item has to you rather than
urgency.
Friends
and Marriage One step anyone can take in the direction
of marriage is to cultivate friends.
Singles Procrastinate Why do we procrastinate? There are many reasons. Find yourself here!
Procrastination Hurts Conquer procrastination and boost your odds of marriage or a long-term
relationship.
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