Singles Meet: Singles only have three real ways to meet. Singles might meet by chance; singles might meet by an introduction from someone else; singles might meet in the singles' scene. Although all three meeting avenues are multi-faceted, it is up to each single to use them. 

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Singles Meeting Singles: Get Met

How DO Singles Meet?

By Chris Wilson

Often singles think they are doing everything possible to meet someone. Are you? Singles will find there are only three ways to meet: singles meet by chance, singles are introduced by someone, or singles meet in the singles' scene.

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Dr.  Martin Gallatin writing the book How to Be Married One  Year From Today makes several good points:

1. There is no wrong place to meet someone.
2. If you don't look for love, you are not likely to find it.
3. Your next lover is a stranger today.
4. Strangers are more likely to be boring than dangerous.

Actually, there are only three ways to meet your significant other:

  • Meet by chance.
  • Be introduced by someone else.
  • Meet in the singles' scene.

1. Meeting by chance is meeting at work, in your everyday life, or where you like to play. You might run into your future love while shopping, running errands, or vacationing. You might meet at work or while participating in a favorite hobby. You are meeting by chance.

2. You might meet by being introduced by friends, relatives, co-workers, or mere acquaintances. Expanding your circle of friends will help. A new circle of friends means potential new people to date. Letting people know you would like to be introduced is also helpful. It gets their creative juices working.

3. Meeting in the singles' scene takes two tracks.

There is the commercial track composed of dating services, matchmaking services, other pay-to-join commercial groups, and personal ads, including those personals on the internet.

There is the volunteer or non-profit track. This consists of church groups and non-profit social groups.

The people who have the most choice and are the most likely to succeed at the meeting game are those who employ all three meeting methods.

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  • They expand their circle of friends and acquaintances.
  • They make certain others know they would like to be introduced.
  • They actively seek out chance, exposing themselves to activities and places where the opposite sex hangs.
  • They help chance along by talking to strangers wherever they are.
  • They take full advantage of the singles' scene, including joining commercial organizations such as a matchmaking service as well as taking advantage of personal ads and the volunteer or non-profit groups.
  • They work hard at hunting and have ample choice for a future mate/lover.

We often describe these people as attached or married. They are rarely in the singles' scene for more than a few months before becoming attached.

Others try one or two things, becoming discouraged easily and being quick to back off from all when the going gets rough. We always call these people single.

Most of us just get stuck in a rut. We try one or two methods of meeting someone, get comfortable there, and stay put, oblivious to the fact that we're now going nowhere fast! We usually call us single, too, although luck does occasionally lead one or two of us to the altar.

Where do you fit?

Let me expand your views! Look back for a year or so. What did you do to meet someone? How long did you try each avenue? Were you realistic or chasing impossible dreams?

The form below will help you set meeting goals.

SOLO has many ways of meeting people. What will you do this month alone to "get met?"

This month, I will do at least five things to meet the opposite sex:

1.______________
2.______________
3.______________
4.______________
5.______________
And one to grow on!
6.______________

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