Single Again and Friends: You can have a strong effect on any friend's life by looking for things in them to praise and then being generous with that praise.

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As your friend walks to meet you,  smile,  and think of a sincere compliment. This is particularly helpful for shy people.

How Singles Make Friends:
Praise Your Friends
A Friend Gives Sincere Compliments

Written or compiled by Joy Stevens with contributions by SOLO for Singles Readers.

Be liberal with praise for all your friends, including casual ones. There is some genuine compliment you can pay anyone once you get in the habit of searching for those compliments.

Praising friends is an excellent way for a shy person to make contact. When a shy person is walking to greet another person, he is usually thinking about himself and dreading the contact. If he walks toward the other person finding something to compliment, he will have a hard time keeping his attention on himself.

Again, we are not talking about the insincere compliments of the manipulators of the world. That grows old quickly.

We are referring to genuine praise for a person you admire and love.

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If you were fortunate enough to have a grandparent, a teacher, or an older friend who took an interest in you as you were growing up, you probably understand the power of affirmation very well. That person who sought out the best in you certainly had a strong effect on your life.

You can have a strong effect on any friend's life by looking for things in them to praise and then being generous with that praise.

However, one more time, it is easy to spot a false compliment so be sincere or be quiet.

SOLO for Singles readers offer these suggestions for compliments for friends:

Look for changes in your friend's  appearance--new haircut, new clothing, or jewelry.

Think back to your last conversation. Was there anything that could be used as a compliment?

If you can't find another compliment, just tell your friends they look good--life must be agreeing with them.
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The Friendship Crisis
Finding, Making and Keeping Friends When You’re Not a Kid Anymore
by Marla Paul 

Lonely?

Have you found yourself adrift, without the warmth of a circle of friends, as a result of relocating, the loss of a partner or other life changes?

Loneliness is a silent epidemic in our world today.

Marla Paul has written for the Chicago Tribune about her personal "friendship crises" when she moved to Chicago after having worked in Dallas for five years. Her experiences struck a common chord with women all over the country. Gathering wisdom from the many letters readers sent and interviews with friendship experts, she authored a book that lays out a roadmap for finding one’s way out of loneliness.

So, would it have been okay for me to call my new pal one more time? Yes, but not too soon. The primal rule is don’t look desperate, even if you are very desperate indeed.

Book Review: Copyright © 2004 CyberParent. All rights reserved.



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The Friendship Factor How to get closer to the people you care for by Alan Loy McGinnis

Having friends is very important to singles. We all know single people who have countless friends. What is their secret?

The author writes that at the heart of each relationship is the friendship factor and that factor is the essential ingredient of warmth and caring.

The author gives you five ways to deepen all of your relationships, five guidelines for cultivating intimacy, and two ways to handle negative emotions without destroying the relationship.

Best of all McGinnis tells you how to forgive and salvage a faltering friendship or other love relationship.

This small and short (only 191 pages) paperback is quite reasonably priced. It is an excellent and classic book to buy and keep! Book review continued.

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