Single Again and Friends: You can have a strong effect on any friend's life by looking for things in them to praise and then being generous with that praise. |
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As your friend walks to meet you, smile, and think of a sincere compliment. This is particularly helpful for shy people. |
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Singles Make Friends: Be liberal with praise for all your friends, including casual ones. There is some genuine compliment you can pay anyone once you get in the habit of searching for those compliments. Praising friends is an excellent way for a shy person to make contact. When a shy person is walking to greet another person, he is usually thinking about himself and dreading the contact. If he walks toward the other person finding something to compliment, he will have a hard time keeping his attention on himself. Again, we are not talking about the insincere compliments of the manipulators of the world. That grows old quickly. We are referring to genuine praise for a person you admire and love. |
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If you were fortunate enough to have a grandparent, a teacher, or an older friend who took an interest in you as you were growing up, you probably understand the power of affirmation very well. That person who sought out the best in you certainly had a strong effect on your life. You can have a strong effect on any friend's life by looking for things in them to praise and then being generous with that praise. However, one more time, it is easy to spot a false compliment so be sincere or be quiet. SOLO for Singles readers offer these suggestions for compliments for friends: Look for changes in your friend's appearance--new haircut, new clothing, or jewelry. Think back to your last conversation. Was there anything that could be used as a compliment? If you can't find another compliment, just tell your friends they
look good--life must be agreeing with them.
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